Where we stay at the Baines’, we live downstairs in the basement, which has been finished into a beautiful gallery filled with James’ incredible work. Since I’ve been so busy and the guys are away, I wind up spending most of my time down here and don’t venture upstairs much until it’s time to cook. Well, the other night I ran out of milk and, since I planned to work late, really needed some for a cup of joe. I went upstairs around 8pm with the amber glass creamer Lea lent me for just his sort of thing, went into the frig and opened a new thing of milk, only to have Lea come in and tell me there was an open one on the counter, and I had just opened her upstairs visitor’s milk! Well, Kay walked in right behind her and consoled me. She and her elderly mum had been there a couple of days as mum needed to go to hospital for some tests, and we had met briefly, but aside from some friendly exchanges hadn’t made a connection. Boy did that change! Three and a half hours later I felt like she was my older sister as we exchanged a kiss and hug goodnight…
Kay is an artist who lives in Cooktown, and it turns out she’s close with an aborigine man and his wife who live nearby. Ronnie is the son of a certain tribe’s medicine man, Jack, and she had a deep friendship with him for many years until his recent passing at age 97. This paints some of the picture of what this woman’s beautiful heart is like, but there’s more. The elder chief of Jack’s tribe was Peter, whose funeral was just a week and a half ago (he was 100). As it happens, my husband and son arrived at their mate’s place just as the tribe was congregating – yes, right there – from all across Australia to pay their respects and see him over to the spirit world. As fate would have it, their mate, and his mate too – who came all the way from Singapore for the funeral – were adopted (read:white) sons of Peter’s. They all got right down to making friends, Thomas and Joel completely overwhelmed by the beauty of each one (including one man who was 130 years old!). They made a special, deep connection with Peter’s natural son, too.
As we talked til late in the night, once again I felt the Spirit swirling around us, joining us in that way which cannot be described with words. We touched upon so many subjects – art, tribal culture and healing, poverty and prejudice, old friends and family, Jack’s funeral, her last visit with Peter in hospital, and what it really means to walk with God. When I walked downstairs with my now-warm jug of milk, it was very thoughtfully, and sleep didn’t come easy with the many colorful images now in my mind. The next morning she shared with me pictures, video and audio files (she also plays the flute) of her varied works, her home and views of Cooktown as her dog Karma lay at my feet. I just cannot seem to put into words how deep it all sank into my heart, and that fast!
After taking her mum down to Cairns the next morning for her tests (the results of which were good, thankfully) and spending the night there, she came all the way back up here to see if she could bring me up to where the tribe is (and my husband!), or at least part of the way. It didn’t work out due to the timing on the other end (read: red slippery clay road, so no-one travelling down to meet us just then), but I was so moved by her choice to do this, driving up the Gillies range (you just can’t imagine how many twisting curves there are in that highway) an hour out of her way, and poor thing, she was so tired. Love and selflessness are such amazing, powerful forces, and Kay’s got them both! I now have a new sister…and so do we all.

- Jack
I had spoken with Peter’s son on the phone a few days earlier, telling him how much I wanted to be there, though I knew my place was here for some reason I wasn’t quite sure of. He said that the presence of my closest family and my own heart’s desire placing me there in spirit embroidered me into the fabric of the tribe. And Kay put the finishing touches on this work, our crossing of paths in Lea’s kitchen finally convincing me it was true, showing me why I was here and not there.

We are one, family both from the loins of Noah and the blood of Christ, one blood, one spirit, one Creator whom we all love with one heart. It’s all true.
Except for those who excuse themselves.
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